Ken Lown provided Recollection #2 here and kept in touch by letter with Old Pastonians.  RIP

​16 April 1923 - 2 August 2019
Dr Ken Lown, who passed away in August 2019, was born in Sheringham, the youngest child and only son of Hilda (nee Frankling) and Harry Lown.  Ken attended the Paston Grammar for his secondary education.
The outbreak of war in 1939 and the call up of many of Paston’s male teachers, disrupted Ken’s plans to continue at school.  His ambition was to study medicine.  Ken was too young to join up, so he made the decision to leave school and take work in a bank in Norwich.  As soon as he was able he joined the RNVR and saw service as an observer with the Fleet Air Arm (1941-1946).

On release from service, Ken was offered a place to study medicine at the London Hospital.  He qualified in 1953.  By then he was married to Monica, who hailed from Norwich, and with their family they moved to Westgate-on-Sea where Ken has secured a position to practice as a GP.  He was to stay in the Thanet area for the rest of his life, as a much loved and well respected member of the local community.  His hobbies and interests were legion, but usually had some connection with all things nautical, as one would expect of a lad from Sheringham.

When Ken was given to talking of his school days at “the Paston” it was always with great affection.  He could still give a good rendition of the old school song when he was well into his nineties.  He did mention that one of Paston’s more famous pupils was none other than Admiral, Lord Nelson – but hastened to add, with a twinkle in his eye, that he and the man who led the victory at Trafalgar did not attend the school at the same time.  There was also a story about catching the train to North Walsham, and the Paston boys stowing away the North Walsham High school girls in the luggage racks above the seats.  Post exam high jinks? A daily ritual?  We never quite got to the bottom of that one and he never did tell.

Ken passed away in Broadstairs during the afternoon of 2 August.  He is survived by his 3 children, 5 grandchildren and his great grandson, Ryan.
 
Supplied by Bridget Lown Evans (daughter) on behalf of all the Lown family

28th August 2018
Well loved French Teacher, Fisherman, Husband, Father...
From Kathryn...
"Sadly Robbie (as we knew him) died yesterday in the Norfolk and Norwich. It was peaceful with my mum and I with him. I would be grateful if you would let any old Pastonians know. There is a message on Facebook but obviously not everyone uses Social Media "

We will miss Marty. RIP
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Update: Marty's funeral was Friday 21st September 2018 at Cromer Crematorium. A non- religious ceremony (his specific request) well marked with standing room only. Lovely tribute by son Peter and his angling fraternity. Coffin adourned with 'Gone Fishing' (to the pond printed on the casket).

​OBITUARY 
(Thanks to Frank Sharp for providing this - it is a couple of years old at the time of inclusion, but many of you may have known Philip.  And it is an interesting orbituary that I think he would have been proud to share with Old Boys - ed).


Philip Rushmer, a giant among west Auckland GPs, whose determination to improve the region's health services inspired four practices to combine into a single integrated health centre, died this month (Feb 2014) after a seven-year battle with cancer. He was 71.

Visionary thinking, sincere leadership and an unending dedication to his patients typify Dr Rushmer's medical career. These qualities were poignantly illustrated as he chaired his final HealthWEST meeting from his living room, just over a week before his death.

Sitting in a La-Z-Boy chair in his Titirangi home, the thoughtful, articulate doctor, who treated generations of the same families, resigned from the leadership post of the social services organisation he had held since 2007.

"I have been to many board meetings over the years with many organisations, but every part of that meeting I will remember vividly," HealthWEST chief executive Aroha Hudson says.

At the meeting's conclusion, Ms Hudson presented Dr Rushmer with a pounamu manaia. "It acts as a provider and a protector, and is likened to a bird sitting on your shoulder looking after one's spirit, and when your time comes it will guide your spirit where it is supposed to go," she says.

Dr Rushmer was born 24 May 1942 and grew up on a farm in the rural English village of Toft Monks, Norfolk. His father William died when Dr Rushmer was seven, leaving his mother Sybil to raise four children.

"[Sybil's] love of music was inherited by the family and Philip enjoyed a passion for classical music and opera that lasted a lifetime," says Penny Rushmer, Dr Rushmer's widow.

After completing schooling at Paston School, Dr Rushmer was accepted to study medicine at Guy's Hospital in central London. In 1966, while still training, he met Penny, whom he married in 1968.

Dr Rushmer's general practice career began in the rural community of Candover Valley, in Hampshire. By 1976, he had become disillusiouned with the UK's National Health Service and, on the recommendations of locums who had come through his practice, his family packed their bags and moved to Titirangi, west Auckland, where he joined Golf Road Medical Centre.

In 1982, GP Vicky Macdonald and her new husband had just moved to Golf Rd, and Dr Macdonald needed to find a general practice placement as part of her Primex exam. Her husband suggested dropping in to the medical centre down the road.

She entered the practice looking for a six-week locum, met Dr Rushmer, and walked out a co-owner.

Dr Macdonald worked alongside Dr Rushmer for the following three decades, and says he was consistent and unwavering in his fairness and optimism.

"In all that time we never had any arguments or disagreements. We were able to sit down and work through issues and, most of the time, Philip was able to convince me his way was correct," she laughs.

Indeed, Dr Rushmer's exceptional negotiating skills saw him take up several general practice leadership posts throughout his career.

One of his early roles was as chair of the NZMA Maternity Services Negotiating Committee. Dr Rushmer was a staunch advocate for the role of GPs in obstetrics and he fought for the rights of women to be given the choice of who delivered their babies, remembers west Auckland GP Jonathan Simon.

Dr Rushmer was inaugural chair of the NZMA GP Council in 1998, following the demise of the General Practitioners' Association, and held the role until 2001. He then served on the NZMA board for several years, before turning his political attention to his own west Auckland neighbourhood. He joined the board of HealthWEST in 2006 and become chair the following year.

For his contribution to general practice, Dr Rushmer was made a distinguished fellow of the RNZCGP in 2011. "Philip is known as a treasured source of wisdom and compassion, and is selfless and dedicated to the medical profession," the college said at the time.

At the age most people consider retiring, Dr Rushmer was finding his second wind.
He could see problems in the way health services were being delivered to west Aucklanders and, with fellow GP Peter Woolford, he began canvassing opinion among GPs in the area about joining forces.

In September 2007, with Drs Woolford and Macdonald, plus GPs Craig King and Maelen Tagelagi, he

began planning a medical centre that would offer something the individual practices could not.

The result is Totara Health Services, an enormous integrated family health centre offering

general practice, specialist and social services in the heart of New Lynn. 

At the practice opening last June, in front of a 100-strong crowd which included prime minister John Key, Dr Rushmer reiterated the vision for patient-centred care he shared with his colleagues, and called out Waitemata DHB for dropping the ball in meeting the community's needs.

"To the DHB, I say let's work together to improve your engagement with primary practice, and focus on putting the patient first," he said.

Dr Rushmer was unafraid to step on a few toes, but it was always in the interests of his patients, Dr Woolford says. He wanted to leave a legacy that would ensure his patients' healthcare was the best it could possibly be.

Dr Rushmer was battling cancer throughout the clinic's development. In 2007, he was diagnosed with prostate cancer and, after beating it, he received a bladder cancer diagnosis two years later.

Yet, he persevered in his work. Dr Woolford says Dr Rushmer was always putting his hand up to fill in at Totara Health Services, and ran clinics until his illness forced him to retire. He was showing a Health Workforce New Zealand representative around the practice just 10 days before he died.

More than 300 people attended Dr Rushmer's funeral service at Davis Funerals in Henderson earlier this month. He was described by colleagues and patients as dignified, gracious, a true gentleman.

He was buried wearing the pounamu manaia gifted to him by HealthWEST.

On the service programme, Dr Rushmer is pictured grinning and holding a cigar. The caption reads

"Do what you love". It's a mantra which, by all accounts, Dr Rushmer lived his life by.

"I attended school from 1945-1949. Just saws the 1947 class pic. and recognized Col. Marshall, and Messrs. Cutting, Grantham-Hill, Skerrett-Rodgers, Brown, Couper, Lachlan and Pierce. I served in the Royal Navy for 12 years then emigrated t to the USA where I've lived in New York City since 1962. Retired from working as a Public Information Officer for city, state and federal governments. Came to the reunion in 2005 and saw only Slipper and Sommerville. 

Anyone else out there from my time?

I have run a community theatre here (NY) for the past ten years (http://www.holytrinity-nyc.org/   Triangle Theatre)
-Dudley.

Note: Dudley admits to being inspired by his involvement in the 1948 production of J.B. Priestley's "Laburnum Grove" with the Paston Drama Group - being understudy and 'prompter' (vital I am sure).  He says he cant actually remember it though but since went on to work in TV and Film for over 50 years, with a Best Actor award performing in Patrick Hamilton's "Rope" in Paris.  Way to go Dudley.

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Sadly, Ivor Kiddle passed away Saturday 14th February 2015.

Ivor had not been well for a few months, although remained very active in many capacities up to last Summer.
Ivor William Courtenay Kiddle, 1925 - 2015

 
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